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Be Sensitive

Find the corona, the raised ridge separating the glans (helmet part) of the penis from the shaft. “It’s one of the most sensitive parts of his penis, because it has the highest concentration of nerve endings in his entire body,” says Yvonne K. Fulbright, M.S., Ph.D. candidate, and author of The Hot Guide to Safer Sex. “Stiffen your tongue and flicker it across the coronal ridge during oral sex. Also, try tracing the ridge, back and forth. It’s that kind of rhythmic motion that can really excite him.”

Get Dirty

Talking dirty can be a turn-on to him—and you. Fulbright suggests beginners start with this basic construction of a sexy sentence: “I want to [choose racy verb: lick, fondle] your [insert sexy adjective: big, hot] [insert favorite body part] . . . ” You get the idea.

Come Clean

Here’s a master class in the notoriously tricky art of bath sex. Start by slinging in a generous quantity of body wash gel. For added benefit go with Philosophy Pumpkin Pie 3-in-1 shampoo, conditioner, and body-wash gel ($16, Sephora). Pumpkin pie scent significantly increases blood flow to the penis, says Alan Hirsch, M.D., director of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago. Now fill the tub with5 inchesof hot water and pour more body gel onto your bellies, chests, and legs, advises Anne Hooper, sex therapist and author of Ultimate Sex Guide. Lie on top of your man and use your body as a scrubbing brush. To make bath time even more fun: Throw in Rub-A-Dub Dice, floating foam cubes covered with sexy commands; or Rubba Ducky, a vibrating version of the little yellow classic. ($10 and $35, respectively, from My Pleasure.)

Lube Up

The G-spot is for novices — sexperts know the “A-spot.” It’s your anterior fornix erogenous zone, a wrinkled, spongy area on the front wall of your vagina, midway between your G-spot and cervix. “The A-spot is easiest to reach and stimulate if you’re in a squatting position or leaning against a support, such as the wall, with your knees bent,” Fulbright says. “After you’re aroused, insert a lubricated index finger—yours or his — to stroke the inner half of the front wall of your vagina. As you become wetter, long strokes resembling thrusting can help you to orgasm.”

Play Games

Blindfold your man. Clinical sexologist Gloria Brame, Ph.D., says blindfolding is an incredibly sensual exercise for men and women. “It forces you to focus on your body’s pleasure, because you’re not being distracted by visual stimuli,” she says. Now dab honey somewhere on your body and make him find it with his tongue, suggests Ava Cadell, Ed.D., Ph.D., a California sexologist and author of Stock Market Orgasm.